Tapped: The truth behind bottled water and how it is being effected by plastic
Drinking out of Cups by Dan Deacon
Fun with my 20mw “Laser”

I decided to try out my new 20mw “Laser” at the Dave Aude show at Lure. I couldn’t help myself…..

Loren Gingerich, Wizard Lending Short Refi SCAM
On January 27, 2009, I signed a contractual agreement with Loren Gingrich of Wizard Lending, LLC for mortgage short-refinance services. Like many others in a similar situation, I entered into a sub-prime mortgage by borrowing money to help pay for the care of my autistic child. Now that the payments on the mortgage are growing, and property value on the home has decreased, I am stuck in my current situation and unable to re-finance into a better deal.
Loren’s company, Wizard Lending, offered a solution where he would negotiate with the mortgage companies for a lower fee on the mortgage that was closer to the actual property value of the home. The reduced fee would allow me to re-finance my home with an FHA loan (which I had already been approved for at 5%). I am currently paying about 8.5% on my mortgage, and the reduced rate would allow me to recover from the debt caused by all of our medical bills.
Loren was very prompt and courteous, and was able to quickly answer all of my questions in order to make me feel safe about the procedure. The agreed upon fee was a $1,295 deposit, plus 5% of the amount saved on the mortgage, which would be bundled into the new mortgage closing costs.
Once the payment of $1,295 was sent via Paypal on January 27, communication with Loren quickly began to decline.
I did not hear from Loren for most of February. It was only after I filed a dispute with Paypal that he finally contacted me on Feb 20. His excuses of ‘strep throat’, ‘internet outages’, ‘backlogged mortgage companies’, and ‘training a new secretary’ were convincing, so I ultimately closed the dispute to give him a second chance. The only thing I asked for was constant communications. Something as simple an email or phone call once a week stating that things were in motion and everything was fine. Unfortunately, that kind of communication never came.
Around mid march, after another month of no communication, I started investigating what others were saying about Loren on various message boards. Evidently, the excuses that he had given me were common. I responded with my similar situation on one message board, and within a day Loren called me. He pleaded that I retract my statement as it was damaging to his business, and went into a very long and detailed email about the ‘other person’ who had lodged a similar complaint. He seemed to have an answer for everything.
Finally, between March 17 and 19, I received four emails from Loren stating that he had made contact with my mortgage company. He stated that they had received the financial package that he had put together, and we would have a response within a few days.
Another passed with no response to emails or phone calls.
April 10: I received an email from Loren that stated: “I tried to get an update from Saxon today, but they closed by the time I was able to call. I am not sure if they closed early because of Good Friday or what the deal was. … We just need to get Saxon to get this in gear and make it happen. I will be in touch on Monday. “
Another three weeks of no communication passed.
May 01: “Just wanted to let you know that your file has finally been assigned to a negotiator at Saxon. His name is James Rome. He was assigned just yesterday. He will contact me within 10 days to get this moving forward finally.”
No communication from Loren in May or June.
At this point, communication with Loren was practically nonexistent; I stopped believing in his involvement. I began calling Saxon myself to see what the holdup had been. I found that the account had actually been closed in June due to a lack of requested paperwork. Loren failed to mention that, he may not have even known. So I had the case reopened and tried to stay on top of it.
I finally heard from Loren on July 17.
July 17: “I just spoke to a rep by the name of Madeline at Saxon. You are not going to believe this, but she informed me that there is a note on your file dated July 14th, stating that they are still missing your 2008 W-2′s that they requested. “
I didn’t know what kind of game Loren was playing, but I personally made sure that all paperwork was faxed to Saxon. I continued to stay on top of the case myself.
August 14: “A negotiator has been assigned to your file as of July 27th. His name is Charles Wells. I left him a couple voice mails this week, but no return calls as of today. Spoke with a Sara at Saxon today and she informed me that Charles shows the short-refi as being processed and under review. She transferred me to him again, but ended up with a voice mail. I look to hear from him by sometime next week. I will let you know as soon as I am in contact with him or have any further news. “
The negotiator that had been assigned on July 27 was my doing as I had been faxing them all of their requested paperwork, and I had been in touch with all of the representatives. By this point, my emails to Loren were becoming more frequent as it was clear that he wasn’t actually doing anything.
By October, I hadn’t heard anything from either Saxon or Loren, so I began following up with Saxon. Much to my surprise, Saxon had been trying to contact Loren for additional information, and had closed my case because they were unable to reach him. I furiously called and emailed Loren several times to inform him that Saxon had (once again) closed my case because of lack of communication. At this point, I threatened to sue Loren, and start telling the story of my experience with his company, and he immediately emailed me back:
October 9: Loren’s Email (in its entirety).
“Vinny, I have been trying to work with Saxon on your file for months and what keeps happening to your file is not my fault. I have been trying to get a supervisor to complete our request for the short-refi, to no avail. What has happened now is the same BS that happened before. The last requested documents that they had asked for, you e-mailed me about it and said that you were sending them in yourself. That was fine. But, now the new negotiator that was assigned to your file is stating that those documents were never received and he closed the file again.
I will send them to him with a plea to re-open the file and complete it. I will also get his superiors involved at the same time. This is completely ridiculous that they keep doing this to you. You are the one that sent them in this time, so you personally know that they were sent. As of Sept. 11th, I was informed by them that your file was still under review with Charles and there was no indication that there was a problem.
So if you should be pissed at anyone about this, it should be Saxon. If these negotiators do not let us know that something is missing, prior to closing up a file, that is out of my control. This place obviously has some issues that need worked out, with the way they handle their files. All it would have taken was a phone call, fax, e-mail, etc. from this Charles Wells to let us or you know that he does not have those docs and we could have refaxed them right back, without delay.
I am as sick of Saxon’s BS as you are and to have them do this again is unacceptable. I realize that the first time this happened, you obviously thought it was my fault. This is why I assumed that you wanted to fax the additional documents that they have asked for, yourself. But now it has happened again and you are the one that faxed it, so they should clearly show you that it is Saxon that has the problem here! I will do whatever is needed to get this done for you. There is no way I am going to start over again. They have everything they need and if they are missing these last docs that you sent, then we will get them to them. You are the only client I have with Saxon, so can’t say they are singling you out for some reason. This seems like a stall tactic that happens when a company is about to fold or merge with another. But haven’t heard anything about it.
So before you go bad mouthing me on the internet, give me a chance to straighten this out with Saxon. Send me the last documents that you had sent and I will get them to reopen this and finish it, one way or another. I have never had problems like this with ANY other lender. Even Bank of America, who is the worst of the worst, doesn’t do this type of thing. They just don’t help their customers…period. But they at least don’t lose paperwork and then close a file without communication.”
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That was the last time I hear from Loren.
After several long phone calls, I was able to get my case reopened at Saxon. I was relentless and made sure that all of the paperwork was received. I was able to get Saxon’s attention through persistence and motivation. Clearly it was possible.
Currently, I am currently in the middle of the negotiation with Saxon and will be completing the job that I hired Loren for on my own.
I informed Loren of this in early November (via email) and told him that I had done all of the leg work; all he had to do was step in and finish the deal. Still, I heard no response. From October through November, I have called and emailed Loren regularly, but I never received a single response.
I finally informed Loren that I wanted a refund for the $1,295 that I had paid him; it was clear that he was putting no effort into my case, and his failure to provide the services which I paid him for was a breach of our contractual agreement. Again, Loren did not respond to any of my phone calls or emails.
I sent him a certified letter and a fax last week stating that if I was not given a refund, I would take him to small claims court. The fax was received with no response, but the address listed on his website was returned, stating that the PO Box had been closed. I did some research on the address and found that there was no PO Box at that address. The address is his personal address; I suspect he simply returned the letter.
On Wed, Nov 25, I finally called Loren and told him that I had enough. I was tired of dangling the idea of publishing my story about his lack of service on the internet, and that this was the final time I would be doing it. If I did not have my refund in 2 days, I would file my BBB complaint, begin my small claims court proceeding, and publish my story.
Within 1 hour, I had a phone call from Loren.
He stated that he would still like to continue the process of my negotiation. He knew that the deal was not yet complete because I had been keeping him apprised of my statues via email. It was good to know that he had been receiving them. He said there was still a good amount of work to be done, and he would provide the services without his “back end fee.”
I informed him that I no longer trusted him and that I felt this was just another stall tactic on his part. I wanted my refund. Finally he said “Bottom line, I am in the process of filing for bankruptcy and have no money to pay you.” Apparently he had been losing money on the back end of the mortgage closing costs, and he had not been getting paid what he was supposed to be during the refinance process.
I stated that if this was actually the case, than his offer to complete the remainder of my deal for free had even less meaning. I saw no motivation on his part to complete the deal, and frankly, his clear lack of motivation is what has gotten us to this point. However, if he was serious about completing the deal, he could issue me a refund for my deposit, and when the deal was complete, he would get it back. He declined, again deferring to his bankruptcy.
It is my opinion that in the last 10 months, Loren could easily have made the same amount of progress with Saxon that I have in the last month. Short of sending me an occasional email, I have no proof that he actually did anything. Since I ended up doing all of the leg work, making the contacts with the mortgage company, faxing the paperwork and having the negotiator assigned, I had no faith left in his ability (or willingness) to provide the services which I paid him for.
All Loren could do was state that he had no money left to pay me.
We concluded when I told him that we finally had an understanding: “He had no money to give me a refund for services which he didn’t provide, and I would continue to move forward with the BBB and small claims.”
A Picture with My Biggest Fan

Not Fallin’ for Fall…but I AM busy as a Bee!
Well, here we are again-another summer has gone and BAM!–fall is here. So far, October has been insane for us, and most of St. Louis. Every weekend we have had plans, be it one party here or another. We recently went to Lure and listened to Starkillers play. No matter if you like his music or not, it is always a good show. Everyone has a good night, dancing and laughing –it is fun to go out and party when Starkillers is in town. Then there was last weekend, in which Vin played at Level 13 (located at Rue 13 on Saturday nights) along with Jeff Hopkins and D.C. It was an official CD release party for Vin and I have to tell you, 400 CDs went out and alot of people gave us props for one heck of a night. If you weren’t there for one reason or another, you missed a great night. The dance floor was hopping and I would imagine the bar made great cash. I went from table to table, being the congenial angel that I am (hahahahaha!) and talked to people all night. Thanks to everyone who came out and supported the guys! Jeff Hopkins is doing a great job revamping Saturday nights on Washington Avenue. It has been a long time since I have felt at home there. Kudos!!!!
This night came, of course, right after Justin Martin played at Upstairs Lounge. The only problem that I have about that venue is that people smoke like chimneys and it is hard to breathe. Ugh! But honestly, I have never seen it so packed! He played one awesome set and it seemed that time went by fast. I (being a short, small girl) could not make it across the floor all night. So I danced where I was and had a blast with friends.
So what is next for October?
Well, this week marks the beginning of Fashion Week, in which I always try to go and support Vin because he plays the music for it. I like fashion anyway and it is nice to see what fashion is through the eyes of others. I think that sometimes it becomes a place for “socialites” to parade around, trying to get “noticed”. I don’t mean any disrespect, but I usually find my seat and sit shyly, waiting for the lights to dim.
Next, on Saturday the 17th is the long awaited for “Booty Halloween”. Located in Koken Art Factory that is actually an old factory–so it is room to room and downstairs with a maze to wind around. Dressing up for Halloween is a blast, no matter who you are. There is great music-a different electronic genre in each room so there is a little something for everyone. Last year there were witches and gangsters, playboy bunnies and gruesome ghouls. There were outfits that people really spent alot of time on and it was great. I am still trying to decide if I am going this year, simply for the fact that I need breathing room.
But, in the Vinny and Jess fashion, we will end up going and having a great time.
Now for Saturday the 24th. I know that the group of friends I see out alot will probably be cozy in their lofts and homes, but I really want to go. It is the Fetish Ball at Lure, with Crucial B and many, many different oddities to behold. There is not alot of opportunities that one gets to wear latex or rubber. Hmm, I think I will check this out. There may be some freaky stuff and you know how we love to take pictures. Even if you don’t go, I bet you will take a glance at our gallery
There may be people eating fire, there may be people hanging from the ceiling. I tell you, one time when Vin and I were in New York, we went to a party that was held in a huge factory. They put us in an old metal dumbwaiter-type elevator and took us up up and away. When the door opened, we stepped into a strange world. There were all kinds of people, in chains and rubber, goth looking and normal looking. There were acrobatics going on and I don’t even know what all was going on, but I put it in a file in my mind of memories worth remembering–just because I was there and saw funky stuff and I am glad I took a look at the wild side of life!
Now we come to the end of October. We have two birthday parties on Friday the 30th. Wow, we will be running around big time. But we have decided that nothing, absolutely nothing will be going on Saturday the 31th. That is the best night of October for me; I get to babysit my little two month old niece. I think that this sums up the fact that, with all the events we have going on in October, it always comes back to calm down time with family. There is nothing better than when she smiles at me for no reason, or when Vin tweaks her nose and she makes a face. Perfection.
Now, back to fall. October will be ending soon. I hope November is sunny-it needs to be. I need the sunshine to grow and to feel energized. I
am sure we all are like that. I can’t even believe that November will be coming in a couple of weeks. Then Thanksgiving. Then December comes and you know how that goes. December flies by so fast I can’t even see it. What a whirlwind! I surely will be writing you my woes by that time again!
And so, I leave you with thoughts of a busy season ahead. And also of a season that seems to be an eternity for me. I anxiously await for little tiny green leaves to poke out of my garden, for you all know that I love my garden. Until then I will stare at all of the tropical plants that have to litter the house when I bring them in from the cold every October. I will pretend that I am far away in some tropical paradise and I will stay inside for as long as I can!
4 Years of Vinny and Jess: Looking back at September 9, 2005
I remember so vividly the first Friday night that I met Jess. I was with Mike Gow and Doug White, and we had finished a sushi dinner at the Drunken Fish. As we dropped her off at her car, I remember begging her to stay and hang out for the night; but she couldn’t.
I was in town from New York specifically to meet her. I saw her photo on a Velvet gallery on Velocity’s website and all I could see was radiant beauty. I was drawn to her, even even from a thousand miles away. I asked Rob from Velocity to help put me in touch with her and he was able to get me her number.
I couldn’t just randomly call her from New York and and start a conversation. So instead, I called her and asked her to model for the upcoming Curvve Recordings Vol 1 CD: Live at Miso, mixed by Mike Gow.
I wasn’t being deceptive, I had every intention of following through with it. It was a great move for Curvve which came from my desire to meet her. In the end though, everyone won. But at that present moment she was interested in the project, and Curvve Vol 1 was a go. We scheduled our first meeting at the Drunken Fish, and things just went from there.
The next day following our dinner, Saturday September 9, I called her hoping to hang out again. Why not? I made a special trip to St. Louis to see her so why not give it my all. She said she was going to Ten14 & Velvet for Jimbo’s double birthday party. Perfect because Gow and I were playing at Ten14 that night. Musically, something happened to me that night. I remember it well. Even Gow said it was one of the best sets he had ever heard me play. I don’t know if I was overcome with inspiration, but it seemed as though I had found my muse. After my set, something unexpected happened: A Rooftop party was forming atop Kitchen K, hosted by the one and only Kirk Apazeller. Something happened that night. Something magical.
To this day I only remember blurred fragments and pieces, but the one thing I do remember is that we were instantly connected. We ran around and laughed together all night. When she finally left, I was filled with nothing but Euphoria. I remember speaking to the great Liz Miller shortly after, describing the immense sense of afterglow that I was left with. From that moment on, my life had purpose.
After I had returned to New York, Jess and I talked on and off during for a while (mostly off), but I wasn’t giving up; we had work to do. Within a month I was back in town and we all met at Miso. Rick Gould took some great photos. If you’re interested in seeing them, the pictures are online in the 2005 Miso Photo Shoot gallery. We ended up using several of Jess’ (and Gow’s) photos on the CD. So overall, the day couldn’t have gone smoother.
This time it was just her and I, and we ignited. Rue 13 will always hold a very special place in both of our hearts as it was where we shared our first kiss. I’m grateful, 4 years later, to be playing at Rue on the weekend of our anniversary. How’s that for timing? It seems as though over the last four years, events have always seemed to unfold in a manner which is greater than any probable odds. To believe that every minor event which led us together was purely chance, seems too improbably to calculate.
Whether or not you believe in fate or destiny, you certainly can’t deny the odds. Funny enough, a few years after we had been dating (maybe even after we had been Married), Mike Gow found a a very special picture on DJ Ellen Ferrato’s website (from San Francisco). I developed her website around 2002, and he was looking through the pictures that I posted of from her events at velvet. Guess what he found? That’s right, three years before I had even seen, known about, or considered calling Jess, something still drew me to her. So much so that I used this picture of her on Ellen’s website. What more can I say except that it’s all been a hell of a ride.
We were meant to be together and I will always love her. Anyone who knows us knows that we’ve had our share of ups and downs. But regardless of the bullshit that we have to endure on a daily basis, we always know that at the end of the day, it’s still just me and her. For that, I am truly blessed. I look forward to the day when I have the opportunity to blog about our 50th anniversary. In the meantime:



